And yet I did speech and drama for 4 years in high school. I get up and preach sometimes, including headlining a week-long revival at an inner-city church in Trinidad. I attend Sunday School and worship most weeks (when all of the kids are healthy.) I have friends. So in my case "introvert" does not mean hermit or simply dislikes being around people.
It is something I have thought about quite a bit, for several reasons. I'm trying to puzzle out my strengths and weaknesses for future work/projects. I'm trying to figure out how to describe my strengths and weaknesses to potential employers and new friends. And, as I study the whole job search and hiring issue I have developed a theory that introverts have a harder time getting hired--because I think that many of the job search activities were designed by extroverts (salespeople) for extroverts (salespeople.)
I have only broad theories for the world at large. I have specific theories for myself.
The definition for introvert that I have been using for years is "recharges their batteries by being alone." For myself, I think that the definition needs to be expanded.
My new definition has 3 components:
- Recharges their batteries by being alone.
- Prefers smaller groups to larger ones.
- Prefers structured activities with groups over unstructured ones.
If you took the same group that I was perfectly comfortable with in one of those settings, and put us in a new setting with little or no structure then I'm going to react in one of two ways. If anyone else steps up to lead the group and impose structure then I will gladly let them do it--I will fade into the background and participate in the structured activity. If no one else steps up to lead the group then I will either step up and impose structure or leave.
I will not participate in a large group for an unstructured time. That is a form of chaos that I stresses me out tremendously.
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